A magical year of fucking – 2018

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Countless orgasms, countless fucks and many memories from adventures of sex as non monogamous.

How many couples, singles, sex parties and club visits last year?
Many more than we thought it was going to be as we started this first year of sexploration – well, this first year for us contains 13 months.

10 undressed sex dates with couples, unicorns or bulls.
3 sexparties.
6 visits to sex clubs.
plus a few more of dressed dates for chemistry searching. And a lot more chatting, texting and searching our channels for YOU and YOU and YOU.
We have so far met people from BC, Tinder, Tumblr and Feeld.

Thank you all for joining us in our sexploration. And do not hesitate to contact us if you’d like to meet us. Who knows, maybe we can meet soon for a chemistry date?

When a woman loves her man…and shows it….

Looking for a needle in a haystack? So it feels like.

Either we are meeting experienced women on their own. Or couples where the woman is only interested in herself and not her husband. I would like to meet a couple like us. Maybe they are more experienced than us or maybe less than us. I can picture what it would be like to meet a couple where the woman always went back to her partner, choosing him over her or us. Still playing and exploring together with her partner and us. To once in a while go back to being in the original two-some with her partner for intimacy and connection.

Meetings with singles?

Maybe. Maybe not. They all need to be interested in us both. Experienced enough to appreciate only touching. No need for penetration. No needs at all. Just listening to the tune we play and step in where the tune opens up. And no, this way of viewing a night together is not us using this person as a sex toy. More of a signal to the singles that we are not promising anything at all….so do not anticipate nor expect – ask and we will see how the night unfolds.

Yes, we know that our tune can to be stronger and clearer. We are working on it.


A new idea comes to my mind. I share it with my Mr S.

”- Let’s try this. We hook up with another couple, meet them for a walk/drink/dinner with multiple possible outcomes:

  • we say ”no, thank you” right there and do nothing further
  • we say ”yes, maybe, let us book a room at a hotel, see each other have sex within the couple and then maybe meet again”
  • we say ”yes, maybe, let us book the room, see each other have sex with your own partner, we have sex next to each other and maybe there will be some touching on non-genital parts”
  • we say ”yes, have sex in the booked room, with your own partner first and there might be more sex in the quadruple”

And a reminder that anyone can stop at any time and back a few steps to start over or choose another direction. As well as a reminder that at anytime anyone can call it a night and say good bye. 

So Mr S, can this be worth trying with me?”

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PS. If you are a couple and you as the woman recognize yourself in my description above….do not hesitate to get in touch.


No person, relation or likewise came to any harm at the sharing of this story. Neither before, during or afterwards. If all of the above is a fantasy, reality or other is irrelevant. What the words mean to you and your relation is the only thing that matters. 

 

a sex-lesson for Stella & B

Stuart was beaming towards me as we sat down for a drink on the roof-top bar where they wanted to meet me. Stella was at the bar with our orders for some cold drinks.

I was happy to get out of my office and enjoy the sunshine with these two. And I must admit that I was very curious to what they were about to tell me.

”-So, Stella said as she came back followed by a waitor with our drinks on a tray, we just had to meet you here as we are about to meet someone else here in a few hours. We will meet our new friend, B. A woman that I found on Tumblr. And we started to talk with each other and then I invited Stuart into the conversation and one thing led to another. We had coffee a month back and then decided that we would meet again. Today, tonight. With our minds set for an undressed date at a hotel. But first drinks here. In this exact place. And as I am so curious and yet nervous as usual, I wanted to meet with you to see if talking about tonight before we meet B will help us have a better experience later.”

Whoops, not something I was prepared for as the last time we spoke they had only foursomes on their minds. But still, as I saw it this was precisely a step that they needed to explore. And in my opinion it was a good thing that Stella was the one who had hooked up with B. I told them so. Which got Stuart splurging out in his beaming and happy mode.

”- I am really thrilled about this, he said, I look forward to some really hot, erotic and sexy moments tonight. And I am also aware that drinks might be the only thing that will happen. Or that the ladies might have some sex and I will help them…the latter is of course what I aim for. But Stella will be in charge tonight which I believe is the way to go to make this as successful as it can be. Stella wants to experience a threesome with all hands on deck, as in all of us on each other and not just two women on me. Which I wouldn’t mind. But is not what I hope for tonight actually. My aim for tonight is to help Stella and B to get comfortable with each other and to teach them all I know abut cunnilingus and breast stimulation and kissing. I will try to be as persistent as possible with them both. The thought of me sharing a pussy with another woman, taking turns teasing and pleasing one of them at a time is a great turn on for me already. 

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I look forward to have my cock teased and pleased by them both at the same time. We have spoken about that in the chat. And Stella is keen to invite B to share the cock sucking. Stella, the invitation part is important for you, tell Thelma what you have in mind!”

Stella moves out of the sun for a while and leans towards me as she starts telling me about how she wants B to feel invited.

”- It all actually started so nice at our first coffee. B said that she felt a sting in her as she was not ready to hug another man that was already ”taken”. I immediately approached her then and hugged her, told her not to worry and added that I would be the one in charge inviting her to share Stuart with me when the time came. As of today I really look forward to Stuart´s plan with his sex-lessons in cunnilingus. I also look forward to share Stuart´s cock when sucking him. And maybe, hopefully, we end up in a three-some with B licking me, Stuart licking B and me deep throating Stuart. 

Anyway, the invitation has gotten clearer this week, it means in some way that B cannot overstep me at any time. I must feel totally safe with her before inviting her to Stuart. I need to tell her about this and am at this moment trying to test HOW to ask her of this. Is it ok if I try it on you Thelma?”

I nod my approval of course, what else can I do. Stella touches Stuart and he moves closer to her and urges her to go on. She talks to me as if I was their unicorn who desired them both and wanting to have a threesome with them.

” Thelma, I want you to know that I am excited abut what might happen. Excited and a bit nervous. And I would like to express a few things about how I want to proceed at the hotel. 

  1. I need to start back to when we had coffee and you mentioned the ting in you as you did not want to ”take” Stuart from me. I thank you for that. It was one of the points that made me say yes to this in the first place. Which is also why
  2. I want to invite you to share Stuart with me tonight. what I mean by sharing is that I will invite you to the different scenarios of pleasure that I hope will occur. I want eye contact between you and me before any action is taken. I want to make sure you know when it is ok for me and us to proceed. I want you to know that you can make any move towards me, and I will let you know when you can ask Stuart to make a move toward him. 
  3. It also means that if you regret the part of female sex, or don’t want to do that part any more, let me have a breather to feel if I am ready to share Stuart in another way with you. I am firstly here for an ”all on all” moment. Not a two women on a man moment. That part is not on top of my list for tonight. 

Just talking about this make the butterflies in my tummy flutter….I tell myself – ”Stella you are excited!”. Thelma, is this a way that I can express any of this tonight or do have any suggestions to how shall I phrase myself?”

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My reply to them both, and firstly directed at Stella is to confirm them that I have heard them both. Understood them. Wanting them not to overthink the events tonight. And supporting Stella in her need to express her needs. As the words will come out of her their importance will be heard and at the same time their importance will lessen. Her pleasure and her ability to be present to perceive pleasure will become more important. And yes, of course she will be happy and pleased to watch Stuart please and be pleased.

As I thank them for the drink and their initiative to meet here instead of at the usual place, I pick up a signal of energies from across the bar. Someone is sending out a signal to me. A direct signal of sexual interest, of desire. And I indulge in it. Letting me be desired by this source. It makes me feel good. It makes me feel powerful. And I know that when I tell mr S about this, he will smile and tell me how much he loves it when I dazzle people.


No person, relation or likewise came to any harm at the sharing of this story. Neither before, during or afterwards. If all of the above is a fantasy, reality or other is irrelevant. What the words mean to you and your relation is the only thing that matters.