Looking for a needle in a haystack? So it feels like.
Either we are meeting experienced women on their own. Or couples where the woman is only interested in herself and not her husband. I would like to meet a couple like us. Maybe they are more experienced than us or maybe less than us. I can picture what it would be like to meet a couple where the woman always went back to her partner, choosing him over her or us. Still playing and exploring together with her partner and us. To once in a while go back to being in the original two-some with her partner for intimacy and connection.
Meetings with singles?
Maybe. Maybe not. They all need to be interested in us both. Experienced enough to appreciate only touching. No need for penetration. No needs at all. Just listening to the tune we play and step in where the tune opens up. And no, this way of viewing a night together is not us using this person as a sex toy. More of a signal to the singles that we are not promising anything at all….so do not anticipate nor expect – ask and we will see how the night unfolds.
Yes, we know that our tune can to be stronger and clearer. We are working on it.
A new idea comes to my mind. I share it with my Mr S.
”- Let’s try this. We hook up with another couple, meet them for a walk/drink/dinner with multiple possible outcomes:
- we say ”no, thank you” right there and do nothing further
- we say ”yes, maybe, let us book a room at a hotel, see each other have sex within the couple and then maybe meet again”
- we say ”yes, maybe, let us book the room, see each other have sex with your own partner, we have sex next to each other and maybe there will be some touching on non-genital parts”
- we say ”yes, have sex in the booked room, with your own partner first and there might be more sex in the quadruple”
And a reminder that anyone can stop at any time and back a few steps to start over or choose another direction. As well as a reminder that at anytime anyone can call it a night and say good bye.
So Mr S, can this be worth trying with me?”
PS. If you are a couple and you as the woman recognize yourself in my description above….do not hesitate to get in touch.
No person, relation or likewise came to any harm at the sharing of this story. Neither before, during or afterwards. If all of the above is a fantasy, reality or other is irrelevant. What the words mean to you and your relation is the only thing that matters.